Setbacks, cut backs and comebacks

Due to recent setbacks financially (totally beyond my control) we have been struggling.

 Unfortunately, sometimes financially struggling also means relationship issues. Our relationship has been tested more than I could have imagined. Our savings account has dwindled and we are doing a lot of nothing outside of work/church. 

So, when you experience setbacks.. What do you do? Well, my first reaction was stress and a LOT of it! While there is still stress I'm trying to move forward and make the best of things where we can

One way I'm doing that is CUT BACKS. 

We are spending less at the grocery store.. Comparing prices per ounce/brand/store.. Looking through ads and hopefully we will be harvesting our own crop soon.. We have some corn, broccoli, peppers, squash and beans coming up. 

I spent a hot hour watering and weeding the garden today. 

We are not using the AC

We only drive to work and church.. Dylan drives his bike to cut down on our $90.00 gas bill every week

We don't eat out.. I'm talking not even Taco Bell

We wash dishes by hand

Make our own laundry soap

And my most recent sacrifice.. No more dryer! 

I grew up simply, so I don't mind to do things "the old fashioned way" it is more time consuming and requires more effort but hard work built this country..

 I'm learning to make changes with a smile on my face.. Doing it not because "I have too" but because I know I can and it will improve our situation. 

Now, I'm talking about all these cut backs and making it sound like we live a miserable life. To say that would be a lie. We still have fishing, hiking, swimming, watching a movie from home, seeing friends at church or enjoying the fresh air as I hang the clothes out to dry or weed the garden. 

There are things to do, if you'll only look. There's things to be happy for, if you're willing.. That's where the comebacks are found. 

In every situation there is an action and a reaction. We learn that in school but what does it really mean?

In our situation it means that we learn to live simply, enjoy what we have and find happiness. 

This is my happiness. The family that God blessed me with. Money can't change my love  for them or responsibility to provide. I am not a quitter. I will find a way!